作為一名富家子弟有哪些劣勢(shì)？

I've known a few women who were maternity nurses and nannies in London for really rich families. eg. in one particular case, each child had their own nanny, and there was a servant that came and asked them each day what special food they would like to be bought for them.

我認(rèn)識(shí)幾位在倫敦為非常富有家庭工作的婦產(chǎn)科護(hù)士和保姆。例如，在一個(gè)特定案例中，每個(gè)孩子都有自己的保姆，還有一位仆人每天來(lái)詢問(wèn)他們想要買什么特別的食物。

Mostly they said they often felt sorry for those children. Often the parents were working very hard and away from home a lot. Their children were almost another possession to talk about, but not necessarily be involved with on any continual basis.

他們大多表示，他們經(jīng)常為那些孩子感到難過(guò)。通常，父母工作非常努力，經(jīng)常不在家。他們的孩子幾乎成了他們談?wù)摰牧硪粋€(gè)財(cái)產(chǎn)，但未必會(huì)持續(xù)參與其中。

People need attention, children especially. And they will bond with the people who provide that attention for them. They all said it wasn't uncommon for the child to bond with their nanny. Then, the parent(s) would get jealous, because now their child was turning to someone else for comfort/advice. The parent(s) would fire that nanny. The main support for that child would be gone. A new nanny would show up, and the process would repeat. Except after a time or two, the child becomes jaded. They learn that whoever they have loved either leaves or is distant. They stop trusting and loving, because it's too painful to break too often.

人們需要關(guān)注，尤其是孩子。他們會(huì)與那些給予他們關(guān)注的人建立聯(lián)系。他們都說(shuō)，孩子與他們的保姆建立聯(lián)系并不罕見(jiàn)。然后，父母會(huì)感到嫉妒，因?yàn)楝F(xiàn)在他們的孩子轉(zhuǎn)向別人尋求安慰或建議。父母會(huì)解雇那個(gè)保姆。孩子的主要支持就會(huì)消失。一個(gè)新的保姆會(huì)出現(xiàn)，這個(gè)過(guò)程會(huì)重復(fù)。只不過(guò)在一兩次之后，孩子會(huì)變得冷漠。他們學(xué)會(huì)了他們?cè)鴲?ài)過(guò)的人要么離開(kāi)，要么疏遠(yuǎn)。他們停止信任和愛(ài)，因?yàn)樘^(guò)頻繁地破碎太痛苦了。

That, IMO, is the greatest sadness. To be in the presence of everything, but in a desert of love and attention.

在我看來(lái)，那是最深的悲哀。置身于萬(wàn)物之中，卻處于愛(ài)與關(guān)注的荒漠中。

Anonymous
Rich is really vague term. And trying to generalize what are the disadvantage of rich kids are hard.

“富有”是一個(gè)非常模糊的術(shù)語(yǔ)。并且試圖概括富家子弟的劣勢(shì)是困難的。
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Is like asking "What are the advantages/disadvantage of coming from a middle-income family?". Therefore, I can only answer this question based on my person experience.

這就像在問(wèn)“來(lái)自中等收入家庭有什么優(yōu)勢(shì)/劣勢(shì)？”。因此，我只能根據(jù)我的個(gè)人經(jīng)歷來(lái)回答這個(gè)問(wèn)題。

I came from a relatively rich-family from Asia and here some some disadvantage I perceived in my life, especially what I experienced when I was young:

我來(lái)自一個(gè)相對(duì)富裕的亞洲家庭，以下是我在生活中，尤其是年輕時(shí)感受到的一些劣勢(shì)：

Lack the sense of achievement - People talk about being the first college graduate in the family or the happiness they felt when they finally contribute to family's income or earn more than their parents. I don't have any of these.

缺乏成就感——人們談?wù)摮蔀榧抑械谝粋€(gè)大學(xué)畢業(yè)生時(shí)的感受，或者當(dāng)他們終于能夠?yàn)榧彝ナ杖胱龀鲐暙I(xiàn)或收入超過(guò)父母時(shí)的幸福感。我沒(méi)有這些經(jīng)歷。
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High expectation from family - This really depends on the family but my family have very high expectations on me. I won't say it is un-achievable but it is certainly tough when your family earns around 100 times the average graduate income in my country.

家庭的期望很高 - 這真的取決于家庭，但我的家庭對(duì)我有很高的期望。我不會(huì)說(shuō)這是無(wú)法實(shí)現(xiàn)的，但當(dāng)你的家庭收入大約是我國(guó)家畢業(yè)生平均收入的100倍時(shí)，這無(wú)疑是很艱難的。

Lack of recognition - It is really hard to be recognize by anyone, your parents or your friends. You will always be Mr. XXX's son.

缺乏認(rèn)可 - 真的很難得到任何人的認(rèn)可，無(wú)論是你的父母還是你的朋友。你永遠(yuǎn)是XXX先生的兒子。

Halo effect - I read somewhere in Quora after someone became a millionaires, their friends feel that they no longer entitle to humanly complain. Feel sad? You are rich, you have nothing to worry about. This is essentially how your friends respond when you come from a rich family. They view you to be free from earthly worry and live in some hermit kingdom. The last time I check, I am still a human.

光環(huán)效應(yīng) - 我在Quora上讀到，當(dāng)某人成為百萬(wàn)富翁后，他們的朋友覺(jué)得他們不再有資格像普通人那樣抱怨。感到難過(guò)？你很有錢，你沒(méi)什么好擔(dān)心的。這基本上就是當(dāng)你來(lái)自一個(gè)富裕家庭時(shí)，你的朋友們的反應(yīng)。他們認(rèn)為你擺脫了世俗的煩惱，生活在某種隱士王國(guó)中。上次我檢查時(shí)，我依然是人類。
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Friends expect you to pay - You are rich, you suppose to pay for everything. Just like what Leonard Kim wrote on What are the downsides to being rich? except you don't have the money, your parents do. If you don't pay, they will think of you being stingy. Unlike being rich as an adult, you need to learn the hard way who your real friends are when you are just going through puberty. The good side is, you learnt quickly (and sadly).

朋友們期待你付賬——你有錢，你就應(yīng)該付所有費(fèi)用。就像Leonard Kim在《富有的缺點(diǎn)是什么？》中寫的那樣，只不過(guò)你沒(méi)有錢，你父母有。如果你不付賬，他們會(huì)認(rèn)為你吝嗇。與成年后富有不同，當(dāng)你剛剛進(jìn)入青春期時(shí)，你需要艱難地學(xué)習(xí)誰(shuí)是你真正的朋友。好的一面是，你學(xué)得很快（而且很遺憾）。
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Negative perception - Let's be frank, there is a lot of negativity towards 'rich kids'. Maybe there is too much movies out there portraying rich kids being spoiled (e.g.: Malfroy from Harry Potter, rich kids from Secret Service). So when your friends or strangers know you are rich, they automatically assumed you are spoiled or can't live without money.

負(fù)面印象 - 坦白說(shuō)，對(duì)于‘富家子弟’存在很多負(fù)面看法?？赡苁怯刑嚯娪懊枥L富家子弟被寵壞的形象（例如：《哈利·波特》中的馬爾福，《王牌特工》中的富家子弟）。所以當(dāng)你的朋友或陌生人知道你很有錢時(shí)，他們會(huì)自動(dòng)認(rèn)為你被寵壞了或者離不開(kāi)錢。

People make you feel guilty - There are a lot of jealousy out there and they use it to make you feel guilty. "You won't understand because you're from a rich family", "If I have like rich family like you, I won't...". Is like an orphan telling you, "If I just have parents...". What am I suppose to do? I was just born in this family, that's all. I did not rob or kill your family or whatsoever.

人們讓你感到內(nèi)疚——外面有很多嫉妒，他們利用這一點(diǎn)讓你感到內(nèi)疚?！澳悴粫?huì)理解的，因?yàn)槟銇?lái)自一個(gè)富裕的家庭”，“如果我有像你這樣的富裕家庭，我就不會(huì)……”。就像一個(gè)孤兒告訴你，“如果我有父母就好了……”。我該怎么辦？我生在這個(gè)家庭，僅此而已。我沒(méi)有搶劫或殺害你的家人，或其他任何事情。

Wrong idea of how money flows in the family - I once had friend who had a friend that married into a rich family. She told me her friend was very disappointed when the family did not just give shower her money or gifted her with expensive stuffs. Her life is no difference compared to a middle-class family. When I heard this, I was not surprised at all. Perhaps she was expecting the rich family to pay them a monthly income just for being their daughter-in-law?

對(duì)家庭資金流動(dòng)的誤解——我曾有個(gè)朋友，她的朋友嫁給了一個(gè)富裕家庭。她告訴我，她的朋友非常失望，因?yàn)槟莻€(gè)家庭并沒(méi)有隨意給她錢或送她昂貴的物品。她的生活和中產(chǎn)階級(jí)家庭相比并沒(méi)有太大差別。當(dāng)我聽(tīng)到這些時(shí)，我一點(diǎn)也不感到驚訝。也許她期望這個(gè)富裕家庭僅僅因?yàn)樗撬麄兊膬合?，就每月給他們發(fā)一筆收入？

Disclaimer: These are just my personal experience and please do not generalize to every 'rich-kid'.

免責(zé)聲明：這些只是我的個(gè)人經(jīng)歷，請(qǐng)不要將其泛化到每一個(gè)“富家子弟”。

Calen Riggs
I was a wealthy kid while living with my parents. It wasn't until leaving the bubble that I realized how much of a disadvantage it has been.

和父母一起生活時(shí)，我是個(gè)富家子弟。直到離開(kāi)那個(gè)舒適圈，我才意識(shí)到這曾經(jīng)是多么大的劣勢(shì)。
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Expectations - My mother never went to college, neither did my father or stepfather. My father is a minimalist, my stepfather is the opposite. Yet, everyone knew that I was brilliant, yet underachieving because of the lack of motivation. They expect me to graduate from college (being the first on my father's side to do so).

期望——我的母親從未上過(guò)大學(xué)，我的父親和繼父也是如此。我的父親是個(gè)極簡(jiǎn)主義者，而我的繼父則恰恰相反。然而，每個(gè)人都知道我很聰明，但由于缺乏動(dòng)力，我未能充分發(fā)揮自己的潛力。他們期望我能夠大學(xué)畢業(yè)（成為我父親這邊第一個(gè)做到這一點(diǎn)的人）。
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Motivation is the disadvantage here. When you are in a wealthy family, you expect life to always be so easy so you just blow off everything. All it really did was destroy many opportunities that others took advantage of. I blew off high school and paid the price.

這里的劣勢(shì)是動(dòng)力。當(dāng)你出生在富裕家庭時(shí)，你會(huì)期望生活總是如此輕松，以至于你對(duì)一切都毫不在意。這實(shí)際上只是摧毀了許多別人抓住的機(jī)會(huì)。我荒廢了高中，最終付出了代價(jià)。

The perception of reality is a big one here. My mother didn't really care what I did as a child, my stepfather was the one that stepped up. He always warned me what the real world would be like. When you are wealthy, you don’t expect the unknown. I found out the hard way, but I adjusted.

對(duì)現(xiàn)實(shí)的認(rèn)知在這里是一個(gè)很大的問(wèn)題。我母親在我小時(shí)候并不真正關(guān)心我做了什么，是我的繼父挺身而出。他總是警告我現(xiàn)實(shí)世界會(huì)是什么樣子。當(dāng)你富有的時(shí)候，你不會(huì)預(yù)料到未知。我艱難地發(fā)現(xiàn)了這一點(diǎn)，但我適應(yīng)了。

After all, isn't my generation the “entitlement generation?” Well, for wealthy people, it often is. Most wealthy adults my age forgot the magic of making their own dollar. Some people are exluded, but there is a ton that aren't. I felt entitled, but I started working and have loved making my own path.

畢竟，我們這一代不正是所謂的“特權(quán)一代”嗎？對(duì)于富人來(lái)說(shuō)，確實(shí)如此。與我同齡的大多數(shù)富有的成年人都忘記了賺取自己第一桶金的神奇。雖然有些人被排除在外，但也有很多人并非如此。我曾感到自己有特權(quán)，但當(dāng)我開(kāi)始工作后，我熱愛(ài)于開(kāi)辟自己的道路。

There is this “bubble” that we often live in. Because of that, we fail to see ourselves in others shoes. When crisis happens to others, we often look away and carry on with our lives. Empathy is severely lacking among our wealthy youth.

我們常常生活在一個(gè)‘泡沫’中。正因?yàn)槿绱?，我們無(wú)法站在他人的立場(chǎng)上看問(wèn)題。當(dāng)危機(jī)發(fā)生在他人身上時(shí)，我們常常視而不見(jiàn)，繼續(xù)自己的生活。在我們富有的年輕人中，同理心嚴(yán)重缺乏。

This is just through my personal experience. Not all wealthy adults are grouped into this.

這只是根據(jù)我的個(gè)人經(jīng)驗(yàn)。并非所有富有的成年人都?xì)w屬于這一類。

Anonymous
My first boyfriend was a rich international student from Hong Kong.

我的第一個(gè)男朋友是一個(gè)來(lái)自香港（特區(qū)）的富有的國(guó)際學(xué)生。

He was one of the reasons I started to learn Mandarin and explore East Asian culture.

他是我開(kāi)始學(xué)習(xí)普通話并探索東亞文化的原因之一。

Never in my life have a met such a hollow shell of a human looking for the spark of human connection his parents never gave him. No matter how ridiculous his actions were, it was as if a child were committing them and not a young adult. There was something in his soul eternally longing for connection, but left feeling it was out of reach.

在我的一生中，我從未見(jiàn)過(guò)如此空洞的外殼般的人，他尋找著父母從未給予他的人性連接的火花。無(wú)論他的行為多么荒謬，都像是孩子在行動(dòng)，而不是一個(gè)年輕人。他的靈魂中永遠(yuǎn)渴望著連接，卻總覺(jué)得那遙不可及。

I wasn't raised wealthy, but have had firsthand experience with those who were raised wealthy, and I suppose he chose me because I could sympathize with him and speak his language.

我并不是在富裕家庭中長(zhǎng)大的，但我曾親身接觸過(guò)那些在富裕家庭中長(zhǎng)大的人，我想他選擇我是因?yàn)槲夷芾斫馑?，也能說(shuō)他的語(yǔ)言。
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He are some of the experiences I observed while with him:

以下是我與他在一起時(shí)觀察到的一些經(jīng)歷：

There were always "friends" around him who clearly felt nothing for him as an individual, but enjoyed having him around to provide them with free things. I would tell my friends "I won't get that, I didn't bring very much money," and they would say "What's the problem? Just leave it on him. We are."

他身邊總有一些‘朋友’，這些人顯然對(duì)他個(gè)人毫無(wú)感情，但喜歡有他在身邊，因?yàn)樗梢詾樗麄兲峁┟赓M(fèi)的東西。我會(huì)告訴我的朋友‘我不會(huì)買那個(gè)，我沒(méi)帶多少錢’，他們會(huì)說(shuō)‘有什么問(wèn)題？就讓他付吧，我們就是這樣。’

For whatever reason, his parents were practically non-existent (with the exception of their money), so he was an extremely vulnerable person to predators, particularly financial and social.

無(wú)論出于什么原因，他的父母幾乎不存在（除了他們的錢），所以他是一個(gè)極其容易被掠奪者侵害的人，尤其是在財(cái)務(wù)和社會(huì)方面。

Culturally, he was completely lost.

在文化方面，他完全迷失了。

Before I met him he had been living in Hong Kong and before that Tokyo and previous to that Beijing. His parents either didn't have time to raise him or couldn't tolerate raising him, so they sent him to live with his Grandparents In Japan when he was tweleve (he is half Japanese). By the time I met him, he had already been living in the U.S. for 3 years. There were other international students where we went to school- plenty- but he had no niche, no sense of groundedness, or cultural identity. He was the son of wealth.

在遇到他之前，他曾在香港（特區(qū)）生活，更早之前是東京，再之前是北京。他的父母要么沒(méi)有時(shí)間撫養(yǎng)他，要么無(wú)法忍受撫養(yǎng)他，所以在他十二歲時(shí)，他們把他送到日本的祖父母那里（他有一半日本血統(tǒng)）。到我遇到他時(shí)，他已經(jīng)在美國(guó)生活了三年。我們學(xué)校有很多其他國(guó)際學(xué)生，但他沒(méi)有自己的小圈子，沒(méi)有歸屬感，也沒(méi)有文化認(rèn)同感。他是富家子弟。

That possessed him more than any nationality.

那比任何國(guó)籍都更占據(jù)了他的心。

Very few people on earth he felt he could genuinely relate to.

他感到在這個(gè)世界上沒(méi)有幾個(gè)人能真正理解他。

This speaks for itself.

這不言自明。

I've noticed (with more than just him) that wealthy parents often expect their children to be hyper dependent or hyper independent. Neither situation tends to cultivate well adjusted adults. As a result, some often aren't well adjusted and/or have blatant character flaws.

我注意到（不僅僅是他），富有的父母常常期望他們的孩子要么極度依賴，要么極度獨(dú)立。這兩種情況往往都不會(huì)培養(yǎng)出適應(yīng)良好的成年人。因此，有些人往往不能很好地適應(yīng)社會(huì)，或者有明顯的性格缺陷。

In the end, I genuinely felt sorry for him because I couldn't imagine the road he was going down taking him to happiness or even prosperity.

最后，我真的為他感到難過(guò)，因?yàn)槲覠o(wú)法想象他所走的道路能帶給他幸福，甚至是成功。

I tend to think that these disadvantages aren't prent among all "rich kids" but more common to that group.

我傾向于認(rèn)為這些缺點(diǎn)并非在所有“富二代”中普遍存在，而是在這個(gè)群體中更為常見(jiàn)。

Anonymous
My family is not very rich, maybe upper middle class in the U.S. economy (I'm from a Eurasian country.)

我的家庭并不非常富裕，可能在美國(guó)經(jīng)濟(jì)中屬于中上階層（我來(lái)自一個(gè)歐亞國(guó)家。）

My dad is a self made men, even though his father was wealthy. He was not spoiled and he did his best not to spoil us either.

我爸爸是一個(gè)白手起家的人，盡管他的父親很富有。他沒(méi)有被寵壞，也盡力不寵壞我們。

I'm sick of people assuming that I always have so much money to waste on them. I never ask my dad for money more than I need. And I can survive with very little, I'm a pro. (FYI, I'm an international student in the U.S., and I don't make any money myself)

我受夠了人們總是以為我有很多錢可以隨便花在他們身上。我從不向我父親要超過(guò)我需要的錢。而且我可以靠很少的錢生存，我是專家。（順便說(shuō)一下，我是美國(guó)的國(guó)際學(xué)生，我自己不賺錢。）

I had "friends" stealing from me. When I was in elementary/middle/high school, I'd always be the target in the class to steal from. I don't know how many of my wallets went missing during the breaks. And sometimes even bigger things. Like my "bff" stole my brand new phone. And many other examples that would fill at least a few pages.

我曾被“朋友”偷竊。在小學(xué)/初中/高中時(shí)，我總是班上被偷的目標(biāo)。我不知道在課間休息時(shí)，我丟失了多少個(gè)錢包。有時(shí)甚至更貴重的東西。比如我的“最好的朋友”偷了我的全新手機(jī)。還有很多其他例子，至少能填滿幾頁(yè)紙。

People assume that I'm just a materialistic b*****. I don't own a bag that cost me more than $50. I did buy people some expensive things because I love them, but I'll never use anything that has a brand logo on it. I'm using a 2,5 years old phone that I charge 3 times a day. And then, I get judged by people that buy every single new Iphone, when they clearly cannot afford. (Minimum wage in my country for a month is $450; while, an Iphone 6s costs at least $1500)

人們以為我只是一個(gè)物質(zhì)主義的婊子。我沒(méi)有一個(gè)包是花了超過(guò)50美元買的。我確實(shí)買了一些昂貴的東西給別人，因?yàn)槲覑?ài)他們，但我永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)使用任何帶有品牌標(biāo)志的東西。我用的是一部已經(jīng)用了兩年半的手機(jī)，每天要充三次電。然后，我被那些買每一部新iPhone的人評(píng)判，而他們明顯買不起。（在我的國(guó)家，一個(gè)月的最低工資是450美元；而一部iPhone 6s至少要1500美元。）

People underestimate my achievements. Yes of course my dad paid for my straight A's. Duh. For some reason people think that I must be successful at school because my dad has money. I don't understand what kind of logic it is. I did not go to private schools, I got my education in public schools, I didn't get tutored or anything like that. I have never asked anyone for help even to my parents, even when I was in elementary school. This is probably what irritates me the most. Why is it so hard to believe that I'm just smart? Why I have to be a stupid rich girl? And why are you blaming me for your stupidity?

人們低估了我的成就。是的，當(dāng)然是我爸爸付錢讓我全科都得A的。廢話。不知為何，人們認(rèn)為我爸爸有錢，我就一定在學(xué)校很成功。我不明白這是什么邏輯。我沒(méi)有去私立學(xué)校，我在公立學(xué)校接受教育，我沒(méi)有接受過(guò)輔導(dǎo)或任何類似的東西。我從未向任何人尋求過(guò)幫助，甚至包括我的父母，即使是在我上小學(xué)的時(shí)候。這可能就是最讓我惱火的地方。為什么就這么難相信我只是聰明？為什么我必須是一個(gè)愚蠢的富家女？為什么你要因?yàn)槟愕挠薮蓝?zé)備我？

People assume that I'm shallow and uneducated. I'm not even commenting on this one. This post already seems like I'm just bragging on how smart I'm lol

人們認(rèn)為我膚淺且沒(méi)受過(guò)教育。我甚至不對(duì)此發(fā)表評(píng)論。這條帖子已經(jīng)讓人覺(jué)得我好像只是在吹噓自己有多聰明，哈哈。

I acted poor till I was around 20. Mostly did not work, but I have tried very hard.

我一直裝窮到20歲左右。大多時(shí)候沒(méi)有工作，但我已經(jīng)非常努力了。
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F.ex: When my dad dropped me to the school, I would tell him to stop a block earlier, so people wouldn't see his car.

例如：當(dāng)我爸爸送我去學(xué)校時(shí)，我會(huì)讓他在一個(gè)街區(qū)前停車，這樣人們就看不到他的車了。

Whenever someone asked me the price of something I have, I'd tell them the half. I actually still do this often. Like my friends think they can find a flight ticket to the U.S. as cheap as $500. Hahaha no.

每當(dāng)有人問(wèn)我某樣?xùn)|西的價(jià)格時(shí)，我就會(huì)告訴他們一半的價(jià)格。實(shí)際上我現(xiàn)在還經(jīng)常這樣做。就像我的朋友們認(rèn)為他們能找到低至500美元的飛往美國(guó)的機(jī)票。哈哈哈，不可能。

When I was a teen, my first boyfriend (he was from a really poor and kinda f*ed up family ) that I was dating for 8 months realized that I had way more money than him. (Thanks to my sister) And he was just changed after. He started to judge my behaviors, make sarcastic comments, and use that typical sentence "You wouldn't understand bla bla" more than the bareable amount. And as you can imagine, I started paying everything when we went out (before, it was always 'pay for yourself'. I never made him pay for me) He almost hated me for not being poor. Then, cheated. I didn't care about him much, but I think it's a good example.

當(dāng)我還是個(gè)青少年時(shí)，我的第一個(gè)男朋友（他來(lái)自一個(gè)非常貧困且有些混亂的家庭）和我交往了8個(gè)月后，意識(shí)到我比他有錢得多（多虧了我姐姐）。然后他就變了。他開(kāi)始評(píng)判我的行為，說(shuō)諷刺的話，并且頻繁使用那句典型的話‘你不會(huì)明白的，等等’，多到讓人難以忍受。正如你所想象的，我們出去時(shí)我開(kāi)始付所有的錢（以前是‘各付各的’，我從未讓他為我付錢）。他幾乎因?yàn)槲也回毟F而恨我。然后，他出軌了。我并不太在乎他，但我認(rèn)為這是一個(gè)很好的例子。

When I was a kid, I would judge my dad for being rude. I'd hate him for that. He is not a bad person, but he is very rude. I rarely heard him saying thanks or please. He doesn't ask, he orders. He doesn't care who he is talking to. When I was 20-21, I realized that he has a reason to do so. Some just freaking deserve it.

當(dāng)我還是個(gè)孩子的時(shí)候，我會(huì)因?yàn)榘职值拇拄敹u(píng)判他。我因此而討厭他。他并不是一個(gè)壞人，但他非常粗魯。我很少聽(tīng)到他說(shuō)“謝謝”或“請(qǐng)”。他不是請(qǐng)求，而是命令。他不關(guān)心他在跟誰(shuí)說(shuō)話。當(dāng)我20-21歲的時(shí)候，我意識(shí)到他這樣做是有原因的。有些人就是活該。

I'm sick of being treated like an ignorant, shallow, spoiled, daddy's little girl. Not only my dad have never called me 'my little girl' even ones, I'm not even that rich.

我厭倦了被當(dāng)作一個(gè)無(wú)知、膚淺、被寵壞的爸爸的小女孩。不僅我爸爸從未叫過(guò)我“我的小女孩”，我也沒(méi)那么有錢。

So here is the disadvantages of being richer: I am rude, and I hate myself for that, but I have no intention to change it because I hate everyone else more. I have trust issues, and I cannot find real friends. I was diagnosed with major depression when I was 15, and currently it's just chronic (23). Also, yea my social skills suck, and as soon as I graduate, it'll hack me hard and I'll probably be never very successful in the real world.

這就是變得更富有的缺點(diǎn)：我變得粗魯，我為此討厭自己，但我無(wú)意改變，因?yàn)槲腋憛捚渌腥?。我有信任?wèn)題，找不到真正的朋友。我在15歲時(shí)被診斷出重度抑郁癥，現(xiàn)在它只是慢性?。?3歲）。是的，我的社交能力很差，一旦我畢業(yè)，這會(huì)嚴(yán)重打擊我，我可能在現(xiàn)實(shí)世界中永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)非常成功。

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I certainly wasn't wealthy growing up, but I got accepted and went to an Ivy League college, so about half my friends were wealthy and the other half were like myself (on financial aid and scholarships).

我成長(zhǎng)過(guò)程中當(dāng)然并不富有，但我被錄取并進(jìn)入了一所常春藤盟校，所以大約一半的朋友都很富有，而另一半則和我一樣（靠助學(xué)金和獎(jiǎng)學(xué)金生活）。

I remember being invited over to a friend's house for dinner, he lived locally in the suburbs of Philadelphia, an area referred to as "the Main Line", a very well-to-do suburb. We drove in the car together around his parent's neighborhood, and we got into a discussion about what it was like to grow up in that neighborhood.

我記得被邀請(qǐng)去一個(gè)朋友家吃飯，他住在費(fèi)城郊區(qū)的本地，一個(gè)被稱為“主線”的地區(qū)，這是一個(gè)非常富裕的郊區(qū)。我們一起開(kāi)車在他父母的社區(qū)轉(zhuǎn)悠，并討論了在那個(gè)社區(qū)長(zhǎng)大是什么感覺(jué)。

As an person of Asian descent, I said to him, I bet you never had any friends who were African American or Asian growing up. His response, was "Of course, we had an African American family living right behind us and their kids played with us." He then proceeded to point out a really small home on side of the road, and continued to explain to me that it was the servants quarters for the main home and the kids were kids of the servants in the home (his home). His response and the following conversation were about how he thought they were just like him, and their life was no different than his.

作為一個(gè)亞洲人，我對(duì)他說(shuō)，我打賭你從小到大從來(lái)沒(méi)有非裔美國(guó)人或亞洲朋友。他回答說(shuō)：“當(dāng)然有，我們家后面就住著一個(gè)非裔美國(guó)人家庭，他們的孩子和我們一起玩。”然后他指著路邊一個(gè)非常小的房子，繼續(xù)向我解釋說(shuō)那是主屋的仆人房，那些孩子是主屋仆人的孩子（也就是他家的仆人）。他的回答以及接下來(lái)的對(duì)話都是關(guān)于他認(rèn)為他們和他一樣，他們的生活和他沒(méi)什么不同。

To me that was the biggest disadvantage to being a rich kid. Having a completely warped view of the world, and not understanding that not everyone else got to grow up and have the same experience as the wealthy.

對(duì)我來(lái)說(shuō)，這是作為一個(gè)富家子弟最大的缺點(diǎn)。對(duì)世界有著完全扭曲的看法，并且不理解并不是每個(gè)人都能夠在成長(zhǎng)過(guò)程中擁有與富人相同的經(jīng)歷。

Both my parents grew up rich but could never make it on their own. I've seen first hand what difficulties they've faced, whether or not they realize it themselves.

我的父母都是在富裕的環(huán)境中長(zhǎng)大，但他們從未能獨(dú)立成功。我親眼目睹了他們所面臨的困難，不管他們自己是否意識(shí)到了這一點(diǎn)。

My parents come from rich families. On my dad's side his grandfather worked hard to build an empire. My mum is from very old money.

我的父母都來(lái)自富裕家庭。在我父親這邊，他的祖父努力工作建立了一個(gè)帝國(guó)。我的母親則來(lái)自歷史悠久的豪門。

Both my parents are university educated, but they never learned how to work hard. Everything was always handed to them, and they were constantly told they could do anything and the world was their oyster. Not true.

我的父母都受過(guò)大學(xué)教育，但他們從未學(xué)會(huì)如何努力工作。一切總是被送到他們手中，他們一直被告訴可以做任何事情，世界是他們的舞臺(tái)。但事實(shí)并非如此。

My parents live off of their family wealth and earn next to nothing on their own, but if you ask them they will tell you they work incredibly hard. Their family money affords them a comfortable upper middle class life, but it's a life of a pauper if you ask my mum. Their perspective of hard work and success is greatly skewed. They see their relatives and childhood friends owning private planes, jetting off on fancy vacations every 4 months and winning oscars (I kid you not) and they think they've failed in life. They aren't happy with life. It makes me so sad that they don't see what they have in front of them.

我的父母依靠家族財(cái)富生活，自己幾乎不賺錢，但如果你問(wèn)他們，他們會(huì)告訴你他們工作非常努力。他們的家族財(cái)富讓他們過(guò)上了舒適的中上階層生活，但如果你問(wèn)我媽媽，她會(huì)說(shuō)這是窮人的生活。他們對(duì)努力工作與成功的看法大為扭曲。他們看到親戚和兒時(shí)的朋友擁有私人飛機(jī)，每四個(gè)月就飛去豪華度假，甚至贏得奧斯卡獎(jiǎng)（我沒(méi)開(kāi)玩笑），然后就覺(jué)得自己人生失敗了。他們對(duì)生活不滿意?？吹剿麄兛床坏窖矍暗囊磺?，我感到非常難過(guò)。

Even daily things don't come easy to them. My mum cannot cook or clean, because growing up she never had to. She was bred to be arm candy, and that's it. Her education was something that was expected of her, but she was never expected to actually use it. Growing up our house was always an absolute mess but she always complained about how hard she works.

即使是日?，嵤聦?duì)他們來(lái)說(shuō)也不容易。我媽媽既不會(huì)做飯也不會(huì)打掃衛(wèi)生，因?yàn)樗龔男〉酱髲奈葱枰鲞@些。她被培養(yǎng)成裝飾品，僅此而已。她的教育是她的期望之一，但她從未被期望真正運(yùn)用它。我們成長(zhǎng)的過(guò)程中，家里總是一片混亂，但她總是抱怨自己工作有多辛苦。

Having said all of this, I love my parents to bits. They may not realize the comfortable life we live, but I thank them for it anyways. They've instilled in me the importance of working hard, because they realize it is something they lack. And they've taught me to be fiercely independent, because they could never be.

說(shuō)了這么多，我非常愛(ài)我的父母。他們可能沒(méi)有意識(shí)到我們生活的舒適，但我仍然為此感謝他們。他們向我灌輸了努力工作的重要性，因?yàn)樗麄円庾R(shí)到這是他們所缺乏的。他們還教會(huì)了我要極度獨(dú)立，因?yàn)樗麄冇肋h(yuǎn)無(wú)法做到。

All of these stories are beautifully written, but I felt like I need to share my story. My family were immigrants from a Middle Eastern (central Asia) country which you may call 2nd world. I have seen both wealth and poverty equally yet I am only 25.

所有這些故事都寫得非常優(yōu)美，但我覺(jué)得我也需要分享我的故事。我的家人是來(lái)自一個(gè)中東（中亞）國(guó)家的移民，你可能稱之為第二世界。我年僅25歲，卻已經(jīng)平等地見(jiàn)證了財(cái)富與貧窮。
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Growing up rich in my home country, I went to private International school, I had a private tutor on 4 to 5 different subjects. Unlike western culture, the wealthy people from my home country focus mostly on educating their children to the highest standard. Education and achievements are very important from young age as early as 5 years old, I feel like the American kids having it very easy and relaxed lifestyle. We ate food with foreign brands particularly American and some German products. I wore mostly designer clothing, we travelled 3 to 4 times a year. My family had a farm, a mansion in the city, lot’s of land and a villa. We were four children and I am the youngest one in the family. I would say I had a great childhood and I was considered to be on the top of 10% until my family got bankrupt.

在我的祖國(guó)，我成長(zhǎng)在一個(gè)富裕的家庭，上的是私立國(guó)際學(xué)校，有私人家教輔導(dǎo)4到5門不同的學(xué)科。與西方文化不同，我祖國(guó)的富人主要專注于為孩子提供最高標(biāo)準(zhǔn)的教育。從五歲起，教育和成就就非常重要，我覺(jué)得美國(guó)孩子的生活非常輕松和悠閑。我們吃的是外國(guó)品牌的食品，特別是美國(guó)和德國(guó)產(chǎn)品。我穿的主要是設(shè)計(jì)師品牌的衣服，每年旅行3到4次。我的家庭有一個(gè)農(nóng)場(chǎng)、一棟城市豪宅、大量土地和一座別墅。我們有四個(gè)孩子，我是家里最小的。可以說(shuō)我有個(gè)美好的童年，并且被認(rèn)為是前10%的頂尖者，直到我的家庭破產(chǎn)。

Where I come from things work heavely on connections and who you know, unfortunately many could not see my father’s succes in his work, so they had to destruct his wealth and his family, believe me it’s very common. My family started looking at various options to immigrate abroad for a better future for all of us. After selling everything into cash, our wealth was down to half a million Dollar, when we did the currency exchange. We moved abroad, the only possible way to move out of the country was to become political refugees to gain citizenship in the host country, there my family became political refugees.

我來(lái)自一個(gè)地方，那里的事情很大程度上依賴于關(guān)系和你認(rèn)識(shí)的人。不幸的是，許多人看不到我父親在工作中的成功，所以他們不得不摧毀他的財(cái)富和他的家庭，相信我，這非常常見(jiàn)。我的家人開(kāi)始考慮各種移民國(guó)外的選擇，以期為我們的未來(lái)謀求更好的發(fā)展。把一切都變現(xiàn)后，我們的財(cái)富只剩下五十萬(wàn)美元，當(dāng)我們進(jìn)行貨幣兌換時(shí)。我們搬到了國(guó)外，離開(kāi)那個(gè)國(guó)家的唯一可能方式就是成為政治難民，以在接收國(guó)獲得公民身份，在那里我的家人成為了政治難民。
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My mother never had worked in her life, but she had to start cleaning restaurants to make ends meet. Most of our wealth was spent on education for school tuition fees and my sister’s university fees. I went to school with children mostly from extreme poor families, many with single parents. Some days we did not have teachers, some days we did, my siblings helped me with maths and physics due not having enough teachers to meet the demand. The first 4 years of our immigration was pure hell, we lived in a neighbourhood of a total chaos, gunshots after midnight, and constant rape and violence in the neighbourhood. We experienced war and serious crimes, it was intense especially growing up as a teenager.

我母親一生從未工作過(guò)，但為了維持生計(jì)，她不得不開(kāi)始清潔餐館。我們的大部分財(cái)富都花在了教育上，包括學(xué)校的學(xué)費(fèi)和我姐姐的大學(xué)費(fèi)用。我上的學(xué)校大多是來(lái)自極度貧困家庭的孩子，許多是單親家庭。有些日子我們沒(méi)有老師，有些日子有，由于沒(méi)有足夠的老師來(lái)滿足需求，我的兄弟姐妹幫助我學(xué)習(xí)數(shù)學(xué)和物理。我們移民的前四年簡(jiǎn)直是地獄，我們住在一個(gè)完全混亂的社區(qū)，半夜后常有槍聲，社區(qū)里不斷發(fā)生強(qiáng)奸和暴力。我們經(jīng)歷了戰(zhàn)爭(zhēng)和嚴(yán)重的犯罪，尤其是在青少年時(shí)期成長(zhǎng)時(shí)，這種經(jīng)歷非常緊張。

Since I lived in a total wealthy neighbourhood and a low income neighbourhood, I could totally see the transition and the contrast. It’s been 15 years since my family have immigrated. My sister is a doctor now, my brother has it’s ow company and one is having his own restaurant and I recently graduated with a master from a well known university. By the time I was entering college, my family fund was zero, but I managed to get a scholarship. This year both me and my siblings bought a house for our parents, it’s not a mansion but it’s a house in a good neighbourhood, this was the only way to repay our parents hard work, they sacrifised everything for us to have a better life, to me that’s the most incredible wealth any parent could contribute to it’s children.

因?yàn)槲以?jīng)住在一個(gè)非常富裕的社區(qū)和一個(gè)低收入社區(qū)，所以我能夠完全看到這種轉(zhuǎn)變和對(duì)比。自從我們家移民以來(lái)已經(jīng)15年了。我姐姐現(xiàn)在是醫(yī)生，我哥哥開(kāi)了一家公司，還有一個(gè)兄弟開(kāi)了自己的餐廳，而我最近剛從一所知名大學(xué)畢業(yè)，獲得了碩士學(xué)位。當(dāng)我進(jìn)入大學(xué)時(shí)，我家的資金為零，但我設(shè)法獲得了獎(jiǎng)學(xué)金。今年，我和兄弟姐妹們?yōu)楦改纲I了一棟房子，雖然不是豪宅，但位于一個(gè)好的社區(qū)，這是我們唯一能回報(bào)父母辛勤工作的方式，他們?yōu)槲覀儬奚艘磺?，讓我們過(guò)上更好的生活，對(duì)我來(lái)說(shuō)，這是任何父母能為孩子提供的最不可思議的財(cái)富。

I hope, I gave you a better clarity of what’s it like to be a rich kid verses poor kid. I have experienced both. They are both equally bitter, however, I found the real humanity and real friends while I was growing up poor. Hope you learn something from this.

我希望，我讓你更清楚地了解了富家子弟和窮孩子的生活是怎樣的。我兩者都經(jīng)歷過(guò)。它們都同樣苦澀，然而，我在貧窮的成長(zhǎng)過(guò)程中找到了真正的人性和真正的朋友。希望你能從中有所領(lǐng)悟。

Fred Landis
Lets start by admitting that envy is one of the most powerful forces in the world.

讓我們首先承認(rèn)，嫉妒是世界上最強(qiáng)大的力量之一。

Reducing it to obxtive real disadvantages, these exist in some countries much more than in others.

將其簡(jiǎn)化為客觀的實(shí)際劣勢(shì)，這些劣勢(shì)在某些國(guó)家比其他國(guó)家要嚴(yán)重得多。

In most of the developing world the real advantages of being a rich kid completely outweigh any imagined psychological disadvantage: you are safe from crime, you have a world class education and good medical care. The others do not. If huge tracts of land and factories and aristocratic status is involved, it is harder for the rich kid to completely screw up.

在大多數(shù)發(fā)展中國(guó)家，成為富家子弟的實(shí)際優(yōu)勢(shì)遠(yuǎn)超過(guò)任何想象中的心理劣勢(shì)：你可以遠(yuǎn)離犯罪，接受世界一流的教育和良好的醫(yī)療護(hù)理。而其他人則沒(méi)有這些。如果涉及大片土地、工廠和貴族身份，富家子弟完全搞砸的可能性就更小。
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In places like the US and the USSR the up and down elevator move very fast.

在美國(guó)和蘇聯(lián)等地，升降電梯運(yùn)行得非?？?。

If a rich kid took his status for granted or got addicted to drugs or did poorly in college he could loose everything.

如果一個(gè)富二代把他的地位視為理所當(dāng)然，或者沉迷于毒品，或者在大學(xué)表現(xiàn)不佳，他可能會(huì)失去一切。

At one time in Brazil,Colombia and Mexico there was a large kidnapping industry which definitely took the fun out of being a rich kid.

在巴西、哥倫比亞和墨西哥，曾經(jīng)有一個(gè)大規(guī)模的綁架產(chǎn)業(yè)，這無(wú)疑讓做一個(gè)富家子弟失去了樂(lè)趣。

A 16 year old teen girl coming from a rich family. Ultra-rich family roots.

一位16歲的少女，來(lái)自一個(gè)富裕家庭，家族極其富有。

I heard from my parents that we were the descendants of the awadh rulers.

我聽(tīng)父母說(shuō)我們是阿瓦德統(tǒng)治者的后裔。

What do you expect her to act like?

你期望她如何表現(xiàn)？

(So this is my first anonymous answer after being active on quora for three years.)

所以這是我在Quora活躍三年后的第一個(gè)匿名回答。

Friends think you are spoiled. Not every rich teen boozes in hookah parlour or sleep overs. Moreover my family is strict on arrange marriage rule.

朋友們認(rèn)為你被寵壞了。并不是每個(gè)富有的青少年都會(huì)在水煙館喝酒或在外過(guò)夜。而且，我的家庭對(duì)包辦婚姻的規(guī)定非常嚴(yán)格。

Boys are always after me. Not only for cash inflow I can provide but also for the hourglass figure I have.( heriditary, I don’t like gyming too much)

男孩們總是追求我。不僅是因?yàn)槲夷芴峁┵Y金流入，還因?yàn)槲业纳陈┬蜕聿?。（這是遺傳的，我不太喜歡去健身房。）

Relatives are always showing off. Family wedding become runway for my cousins.

親戚們總是在炫耀。家庭婚禮成了我表兄弟姐妹的秀場(chǎng)。

I don’t have boy friends. Shocked aren’t you? My house is at the good location with tutions and school nearby for parent to track my advances.( pure they want me to be)

我沒(méi)有男朋友。你很驚訝吧？我的房子位置很好，附近有補(bǔ)習(xí)班和學(xué)校，方便父母監(jiān)督我的進(jìn)展。（他們希望我保持純潔）

Beauty is considered above brains as friends think richie kids are only physically attractive. I think I am a face palm on them.( Computer Science in plus two)

顏值被認(rèn)為比智商更重要，因?yàn)榕笥褌冋J(rèn)為有錢人家的孩子只是外表吸引人。我覺(jué)得我對(duì)他們來(lái)說(shuō)是個(gè)尷尬的存在。（計(jì)算機(jī)科學(xué)在高中階段）

Lastly I would tell all of you. Please don’t think an affluent family’s kid is always hooking up.

最后我想告訴所有人，請(qǐng)不要認(rèn)為富裕家庭的孩子總是在約會(huì)。
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Anonymous
I'm 17 and my father is a millionair.

我17歲，我父親是百萬(wàn)富翁。

I'm writing this answer from latest iphone.

我正在用最新的iPhone寫這個(gè)回答。

I also own samsung s20 ultra.

我也擁有三星S20 Ultra。
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I'm not good at studies.

我不擅長(zhǎng)學(xué)習(xí)。

Now, disadvantages;

現(xiàn)在，缺點(diǎn)；

Every girl want to be your girlfriend because of your money and not whom you are..it's really difficult to find someone who really love you.

每個(gè)女孩都想成為你的女朋友，因?yàn)槟愕腻X，而不是因?yàn)槟氵@個(gè)人。真的很難找到一個(gè)真正愛(ài)你的人。

Parents don't have time I haven't had quality time with my parents yet…still I bielive that they love me.

父母沒(méi)有時(shí)間，我還沒(méi)有和父母度過(guò)美好的時(shí)光……但我仍然相信他們愛(ài)我。

Friends look upon your money…they don't want to share bills they want you to pay for all expenses.

朋友們盯著你的錢……他們不想分?jǐn)傎~單，而是希望你來(lái)支付所有費(fèi)用。

Even if you want to study people discourage you by saying that your father is really rich you don't need to do job.

即使你想學(xué)習(xí)，人們也會(huì)通過(guò)說(shuō)你父親真的很富有，你不需要工作來(lái)勸阻你。

We do have struggle like we don't have anyone to tell our secret but everyone thinks that my life is super enjoyble.

我們確實(shí)有掙扎，比如沒(méi)有人可以傾訴我們的秘密，但每個(gè)人都認(rèn)為我的生活非常愉快。

You are not treated normally which most of us don't want.

你沒(méi)有被正常對(duì)待，這是我們大多數(shù)人不希望的。

Igor Sushko
Funny question. However, it's not all good just because you were born rich. Just look at the "fuerdai" or second generation noveau riche in China. It's an issue especially if the parents don't take care to properly raise their children or pay attention.

有趣的問(wèn)題。然而，僅僅因?yàn)樯鷣?lái)富有并不意味著一切都會(huì)好。只要看看中國(guó)的“富二代”或新貴的第二代就知道了。如果父母不注意好好撫養(yǎng)孩子或關(guān)注他們，這尤其是個(gè)問(wèn)題。

I would definitely make sure you know what you're doing if you have a kid and also have a lot of wealth they will inherit. Just look at Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg, they are pledging away their fortunes to charity. It is not simply handed down to their children. Extremely important as the children need to know how to make it themselves - and often to appreciate how hard their parents actually worked to get where they were.

如果你有孩子并且擁有大量他們將要繼承的財(cái)富，我一定會(huì)確保你知道自己在做什么。就像比爾·蓋茨和馬克·扎克伯格，他們正在將自己的財(cái)富捐贈(zèng)給慈善機(jī)構(gòu)，而不是簡(jiǎn)單地將財(cái)富傳給他們的孩子。這是極其重要的，因?yàn)楹⒆觽冃枰廊绾巫约簞?chuàng)造財(cái)富，并且往往要感激父母為取得成就所付出的辛勤努力。

Anonymous
I wouldn't say that I'm a "rich kid" but I'm definitely upper middle class.

我不會(huì)說(shuō)我是“富家子弟”，但我絕對(duì)屬于中上階層。

Probably the biggest disadvantage was that my Dad was never really home since he was usually working. I didn't really mind it when I was younger, but I realized that I wasted a bunch of time entertaining myself (video games/television) instead of doing anything constructive. With no parental supervision, I never really learned anything about discipline and hard work until I was about 21 years old (I'm 22 now). Nor did I know anything about how difficult and draining life can be.

可能最大的缺點(diǎn)是我爸爸因?yàn)楣ぷ鲙缀鯊牟辉诩?。我小時(shí)候并不在意，但后來(lái)意識(shí)到我浪費(fèi)了很多時(shí)間在娛樂(lè)上（如玩電子游戲和看電視），而不是做任何有建設(shè)性的事情。在沒(méi)有父母監(jiān)督的情況下，直到我大約21歲（我現(xiàn)在22歲）之前，我對(duì)紀(jì)律和努力工作一無(wú)所知。我也不知道生活有多么艱難和令人疲憊。
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Also, as another anonymous posted commented, no parental supervision + lots of disposable income and free time = heavy drug use.

此外，正如另一位匿名評(píng)論者所說(shuō)，沒(méi)有父母的監(jiān)督 + 大量的可支配收入和空閑時(shí)間 = 嚴(yán)重的毒品使用。

You cannot experience happiness without an experience sadness.

沒(méi)有悲傷的經(jīng)歷，就無(wú)法體驗(yàn)快樂(lè)。

You cannot experience comfort without an experience of discomfort.

沒(méi)有經(jīng)歷過(guò)不適，就無(wú)法體驗(yàn)到舒適。

You cannot experience triumph without experience of adversity and hard work.

沒(méi)有經(jīng)歷過(guò)逆境和努力，就無(wú)法體驗(yàn)到勝利。

You cannot experience wealth without an experience of poverty or mediocrity.

你無(wú)法體驗(yàn)財(cái)富，除非你經(jīng)歷過(guò)貧窮或平庸。
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Rich kids are not able to fully experience the luxury of being rich simply because this was the default experience they got. They never experienced any other financial status, so they will forever take wealth for granted and are unable to enjoy the wealth like that of a poor person experiencing it. That's just how humans are wired, no matter how conscious a rich kid is of the aforementioned fact, they can never value it from the poor man's standpoint.

富家子弟無(wú)法完全體驗(yàn)到富有的奢侈，因?yàn)檫@是他們默認(rèn)的經(jīng)歷。他們從未經(jīng)歷過(guò)其他的經(jīng)濟(jì)狀況，因此他們將永遠(yuǎn)把財(cái)富視為理所當(dāng)然，無(wú)法像窮人那樣享受財(cái)富。這就是人類的本質(zhì)，無(wú)論富家子弟多么意識(shí)到上述事實(shí)，他們永遠(yuǎn)無(wú)法從窮人的角度來(lái)珍視它。